We both know that you should NOT seek a relationship with anyone but yourself at this time. That will give you time to grow pass these situations you put yourself in. "If nothing ever changed, there'd be no butterflies." Steer clear of being labeled a red flag and larva. This means you still have to undergo a serious metamorphosis which means you still need to transform from being immature in order to become an adult. One great way to start your metamorphosis is to seek help for any addictions you may have as well as any bad habits.