Although a black heart may seem unappealing it's not as bad as one may think. You have a certain mystery about you. You probably don't open up completely or let just anyone into your world. On the surface you may seem somewhat standoffish but, in reality when someone gets to you know you they quickly change their tune. You have a certain degree of compassion & love. You are an incredibly strong person.
With your daughter being the middle child, she might feel that she isn't as important because she isn't the eldest or the baby of the family, so make sure to pamper her! On the other hand, make sure to keep your food pantry stocked up because your boys will eat everything in sight once they're a bit older