You "Go with the flow". You often choose to go around obstacles rather than smash through them, making life easy-going and enjoyable. As a Water Bender you are a natural healer, and the glue that keeps your friends together. You naturally abhor and avoid brute force, but can still be a powerful influence like the ocean. When healthy you are a wonderful peacemaker and listener; or on the other hand you might be easily pushed over and end up letting your indecision take you nowhere.