You don't like it when people tell you what they think of you, either it is good or bad. You enjoy life more when people keep their comments to themselves (which is not easy for any of your friends). You need to just calm down and take their advice. Even if it goes against everything you believe in. Trust me, you need help!!!
You're in between awesome and un-awesome...it's kind of a nebulous purgatory....you must further improve your tastes and ability to combat what may be a certain collapse of civilization....you're like a cat that can't groom properly because it's got a lampshade on it's head and of course longjohns...