Eh...I can't help but think your covering for your friends bad actions. Even though you think that what she does is wrong. It seems like your in some kind of denial when it comes to your friend. But its easy to feel that way. We've all been there. You may think your friend is great and amazing right now, but remember that you are your own person, and if your friend can't appreciate that than that's definitely not a good friend quality.
You like to be reconized as much as the next person, but it's not, like, an obsession for you. Sure it might be fun to mingle with stars and varios boy bands members or even get a ride in a limo every now and then, but you've got a clear picture of what really matters--good friends, keeping it real, and doing the right thing. Oh and the stalkers? No way!