Your doing ok. The finer things are not really important. Still looking for that perfect guy(or at least a guy that can hold down a job). In a nice modern apartment in the suburbs living with your roommates and pretty much best friends, with the money each of you save, you occasionally go out for shopping sprees at the supermarket(The mall? On your budget?) and sometimes find a pretty dress or some ok jeans. Life isnt bad and life isnt super. it's just right.